I've been throwing away so much stuff my room feel all empty. I don't have any posters on my door or walls anymore~ I wouldn't mind a spa right now, this one looks so good.
I haven't been able to update a lot here. I've been busy watching the news on what's going on between America and North Korea. And not to mention the bombing in Boston. These last weeks I've been watching and reading news like there's no tomorrow. I really don't like to watch the news, because there's hardly ever any good news on. They should rename it to "here comes war" or "depressing news". And I've been super worried about the North Koreas bullshit. They're all talking about a world war 3. It's possible that Kim fuckhead jong un is just making a lot of noice, but I really hope someone just put a bullet through his head.
I've spent most of my time online and on different forums and sites and there's something I always come across no matter the site: bullying.
As admin, mod, production leader and god knows what else I've been up to I've learned how to handle it. I know it's hard to take critique from mr Anonymous, especially now when there's so many haters out there. But something you have to remind yourself of, it's just empty words. The words themselves won't affect you unless you let them do it. And why would you want to listen to some spineless creep who doesn't even stand for his or her own opinion? By being anonymous shows us that they're too afraid of getting personal and letting you find out who they are. Probably they're too afraid of you finding out who they are so you can report them to the police or confronting him/her/them in person. It's cowardly to hide behind a computer screen and trying to make others feel bad about themselves. For what?
What you can do:
*DON'T feed the trolls. If you ignore them, eventually they'll get bored and go away. It's when you react to these idiots that they'll get a kick out of it. Most of them are doing it just because they're bored as fuck, or they carry some kind of mental illness, pick one.
* If you see a message that's starting out pretty bad with foul language and a mean 'tone' into it. If you don't like it, just delete it. Your happiness is just one click away.
*If your blog gets hacked or whatever, contact the staff on the site. There's people for pretty much everything. And you can always contact the police. BUT remember, the police can't keep an eye on everything that's going on online.
And it's so easy to get away with pretty much anything.
So what you can do, if you're sensitive and feel like you wouldn't be able to handle haters:
*Don't upload or send anything that would make you feel embarrassed about in a few years from now, or maybe even a few weeks from now.
Be cautious!
Don't post nudes or send half naked pictures to people you don't know that well unless you could handle the fact that they might get uploaded on some site. How many celebrities haven't you seen got their phone hacked and the nude pictures to their boyfriends/girlfriends got uploaded on internet. Once it's up and online it's hard to delete it, might even be impossible.
*Don't post personal stuff about yourself. No negative stuff that will give the trolls a upper hand. They love when they find something that's personal to you and what might get you upset or lose your temper. Just remember, trolls love dirt. So keep it clean.
No One Can Make You Feel Inferior Without Your Consent - Eleanor Roosevelt
So I wanted to talk to you guys about men. Since I've always been a kind of tomboy my life, I love video games and testosterone kind of movies with a lot of action and guns going on. My heroes: Arnold Schwarzenegger, Sylvester Stallone, Dolph Lundgren, Bruce Willis, Jackie Chan, Jet Lee, Jason Statham etc. (Yeah I know I just recited pretty much all of the actors from expendibles, but there's a reason for them to be in that movie in the first place) I seriously get gag reflexes whenever I think of that dude from pretty woman (Richard Gere?) or Hugh Grant.
I have a brother and we've spent a lot of time doing things with my father, like fishing and building/crafting stuff at our grandmas summer house, and we always watched the movies my father liked. So I grew found of those movies and the actors. I never understood the whole reading gossip magazines and giggling about cute boys. I've never been much of a girlygirl. So when it comes to boys, I guess I want a man that looks and acts like a man. I've never been much for the guy that looks very feminine. I'm not saying I want this caveman type of guy who never shaves or take cares of his appearance, or with this old fashion attitude of women in kitchens. Cuz that's not what makes a man at all. What I'm trying to say is that I'm quite boyish at times and I don't want to be the "boy" in the relationship, cuz believe it or not I do have my girlish moments as well and guess what I'm still a girl. And no offense, but boys better not touch my make up. If a guy wants to wear skin and hair products, that's great, but don't you dare touch my makeup. I'll stab your ass with a fork. If it's for costumes or a photoshoot that's cool, but like wearing mascara and foundation and whatnot like everyday, sorry that's just not my cup of tea. What do you call it? metrosexual?
And since the sun's on its way down, I'm going out for a while! Talk to you bitches later
Checked my email yesterday and saw this, needless to say I'm feeling more paranoid than ever. A few weeks ago I bought a Milky the bunny, but I bought it from a toy store here in Stockholm/Sweden and not online.
Hej och välkomna till min nya blogg. Jag tänkte kicka igång denna blogg med att berätta lite om mig. Jag är en tjej på 22 år, jag gillar att spela spel, läsa böcker, pyssla och se på film. Något jag verkligen lever för är allt estetiskt, så som att: sjunga, dansa, agera, designa. Jag har ett brinnande intresse för allt kring film, speciellt props som det kallas. Det är alltså rekvisita. Jag kan spendera dyra pengar på att köpa replicas (kopior) på rekvisita från filmer. Trollstavar, svärd, klädesplagg, smycken och mycket mer. Det var nog på så sätt jag kom in på cosplay. Cosplay är något ni kommer att få se mycket av här i bloggen. Ni som inte är bekanta vid cosplay så betyder ordet i sig costume-play. Vilket innebär att man syr kostymer och svärd/rustningar/vingar och går på evenemang för att visa upp sig. Det är mer eller mindre som ett lajv. Något jag älskar och alltid har älskat är att pyssla. Jag kan sitta i timmar helt avstängd från omvärlden, helt uppslukad i ett pågående projekt. ;)
För tillfället har jag inte så mycket mer jag kan säga. Ny bloggdesign kommer däremot inom kort~
~Ariel wig by me~
Välkommen åter och hör gärna av dig om du har frågor! /Ritzy
